Young family

I was walking to pionner mrt and saw two young family. What I mean is young couple with a newly born baby. They were push the baby trolley.

What come to my mind was basically envy them. I just wish that I can have my own family soon. At least I can process to another phase of life. Why so fast? Not fast already. If we were to calculate and really have a fruitful and meaningful life, we have to start when we are still young.

When we older, our kids might be too young to join you for any happening activities. Ended up he or she will have to spend most of their time sitting beside the bed and pray for you. How much meaningful and memoriable experience you both have? On the other hand,if you are much younger, and you son or daughter are big enough and they get you involve in what ever youth experience and adventurous activities and you are still fit and strong to participate. Isn't that good?

But can we? Singapore got too many people are bounded with worries. Education, money, married, parents, housing, kids, etc. So how?

Religion

What is the things that make us trust and have faith with things that we are doing? Who is the person that we speak to when we are in difficulities while no one on earth can help? Who can be our pilliar forever?

I don't have the answer. But current thought is I, me, myself! But I still believe spritual support even thought I did not have any prove to prove its existence but I had encounter spritual support. I guess due to multi racial country, we are being expose to different believe and reasons to convince us what and who to be.
But ultimately is all our choice in life and decision we make.

Which religion teach bad or inhuman act to people? All rules and regulations are set by people, the society. Rules could just be set cause one who do not like a particular thing and others saw it and they follow without knowing why. So is that how life going to be without trying and making a different in life?

The actual life

I was shared by a friend regarding his job. He told me that after making the decision to take up the job, he find that he cannot be who he is. But overall, he have no choice but just to carry on with the unnatural self to work.

There was once when I am heading back from my life saving refresher workshop, I saw one of my friend who work in similar field who used to be my instructor was with his daughter. During the time he was my trainer, he just kind of give up and accept the fact that he have to guide the trainees. So the way he conduct was just doing for the sick of doing it. And compare to the moment that he communicate with his daughter was really a loving dad and can see the different in how committed or passionated to the thing we feel is worth investing. Well, maybe not invest but more like belonging to us.

Having a job not doing it like what we are are really tough. There are so many restriction, too many needs and wants that we want to fulfill are things that make us what we are and what we think. But ultimately, it lies in our hand. What make us feel that way? Is the society? Is our love ones? Do be positive, have a open mind which does help to be more giving and commit. People that I see are those who work to fulfill their needs, after stable, they will strive for wants.  That life!

Earning money, spending money!

What do you think about your life? What do you life for? Why are we here? 

Have all these thoughts came to your mind before? If No, guess maybe you would like to give yourself sometime to consider. 

For me, I do. Somehow these question give me a headache. There is no right or wrong answer to it. Depend where are you, what is your condition of life, people around you and so on, are factors that will affect our decision, mindset and choices that we make. 

What is our basic needs? Some time I will forget about it. Shelter, Water, Food? I have a shelter, which is free. I got the food and water, which is also free! What more to complaint!? But on the other hand, who is paying it for you to have it free? Guess most of us who are living with our family will be taking advantage on it. Yes, contributing back to family but does the amount is sufficient to pay off what you had used? No way man. Overall, our needs will just be phone bills, electronic gadgets, movie tickets, entertainments, luxury foods, cab fare, etc. We spend money just like water flowing. Is that true? Got to ask ourselves. 

We work and work and work. What is it for? We get scholarship or sponsorship for what? Pay off fees so that we can have more money to spend on what we want or to spend what we need? I have no direct answer. It is all depend on how we need the money for. As mentions that there are factors that affect our decision. Therefore, it really have to depend how one self being affect. 

Example for working for family need will be farmer. But Singapore did not have much agricultural  industry. I do not think so much on it. But i guess family who are living in poverty, they are the one being affected. I think it always started with people who are disable to be their sole-breadwinner.  And kids are young and there is no much help from relatives. They have no other source of support. 

On the other hand, people who are rich, they spend time working and provide money for family and family spend the money for them.. So that is what a family breadwinner suppose to do I guess. 

So, do use your hard earned money wisely! Do consider your future! 

  

What happen? 01

"What happen?" There will be different part. This tells me why i wasn't blogging at this or that period. At least i can somehow answer for my life.

I pause awhile is due to unable access via phone and wonder how can i use this phone to blog. And for the pass few days, i am seriously pack with stuff in camp. I have no choice everyday back to rest i have no energy to carry on blogging.

I was preparing stuff for exercise. And now, after thinking through about it, I feel that I am total busy for nothing. What ever I had done is just worrying for the sick of doing. Maybe not busy, I am just feeling so tired.

Suddenly my energy level was being drain off. I am just so tired for me to open my eyes to feel the world and create a change. Guess it is time for me to take a break!

Living my life like there is no tomorrow.

Do i have any health problem? Well, my medical check up have not given me any response! Yes and No. But just pray that nothing happening to me more like a psychological problem.

I look healthy! But look can be deceiving. I always having some internal problem which cannot be seem. Currently i'm having gastric problem due to irregular meal, or sudden greedy of food intake. So do aware of how you eat.

Well, I do not know whether did i have any problem but i think i assume the worst case which on the other hand kind of boost my moral. I think about how should i make full use of my day and yes, it does make me tired. But i really enjoy this kind of day where i had make a different in my life. Live my life with no regret!

What do you think about your life? How you should live your life?

Don't kill a child's enthusiasm

Don't kill a child's enthusiasm

I totally agree with what the parents. Well, isn't it a fact of life?
On the point as a parents, seeing the kid so enthusiastic to work on the art work and was not recognized is really a waste of effort. And I think school should take a effort to display the art work of the students at least show some appreciative ways to encourage them to showcase their work in future. 
On the other hand, looking from the school perspective, there will be limited space to display all. Well, guess is also due to their lack of time and heavy workload.  They don't really want to put in more time to consider how younger kids will think and they will just do the art show just one time session. Overall, I should say it voice down to the commitment level of the teachers. If you are just having being a teacher for the sick of money, don't be please! Cause you might just cause harm to the others who are committed educate others and also to those innocent learners. 
Guess I am drifting out too far... 


In education, I believe it take both hands to clap. There must be a devoted teacher and also a interested learner. When ever teacher teach, the learner will be attentive for absorb and gaining the insight. But if one were to give up, the others will just be giving or taking without knowing whether he or she understand. I just feel that we should not demoralize others in anyway but should encourage to do the right thing not the convenience way.