I feel the pain.

What happen to your family when you have health problem? How worried are they towards you? They will be so worried till affected their daily routine. If they don't, this might be the reason why you are lack of family love.

I remember there was once I had gastric problem and I was in a very painful and disperse for cure situation. I had just taken the medication that was given by doctor. But that does not help. I could only scream and shout to ignore the pain. While I am doing it, people around me were just crying in their heart, feel the pain for me. I am so selfish and keep inisist that they do not understand how I am feeling.

And now, my mum was feeling pain and she did not show it. And not later, my siblings told me that she need to go for minor operation. As a child of hers, I started to feel worried. Eventhough I dun physically see her pain but I can feel her worried and fear. On the other hand, my dad also feel burden with the problem.

Now my family face difficulities, as a son what can I do? I am not financial stable and I still rely on them alot. I am workaholic keep busying outside activities. And this time round, I have to contribute back and start to take up responsibilities. Well, these are just my anger words. But putting into reality is something I need to work on.

What have I done??

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Baby baby baby!

What is wrong recently? Did government increase the money for baby bonus? Do Singaporean feel more richer than the past? Or just that the world is changing and people get morn horny? Or maybe I am already in another stage of my life!

Well, face the reality then. What happening is that I felt that there are so many people who married and they just give birth. Total there are 5 of them.

There isn't anything wrong! It was just that people around me had progress. They had move to another stage of life. After married, after settle down, after carrying in tummy, now is the holding the burden part. The one month of torture; where both parents need to wake up in the middle of night feed the newly born baby. Coating the baby to sleep, etc. These are experience shared by them.

Doing so, is just the start of baby life. Guess there are more to come. All these hardwork and effort done is all about you and your own responsibilities. Baby is yours, is your precious! And I do believe, parents do reep what they sow! Be a good boy and girls ya!

Enjoy your parenthood for my dear brothers and sisters!

A long time bond

Today is just awesome! Waking up and knowing that I am unable to teach my nephew and niece swimming, I predicted that iwill be aimless for the whole day.

And well indeed. I spend my whole morning surfing net, trying to do some planning. I ended up didn't do it. At around 1130 hrs, I went out to meet Sabrina and I share with her about withdrawing from my youth group. I really have the mentality of quitting. I am really confuse as I feel it mind be very obvious if I were to quit as I cannot make much change if I do not step up to be chair. And personally, I do feel shame as I share with my peers that I will be stepping up.

Anyway, after I got home my elder sister, kim tian and rachel decided to go jurong point. And here we start! We head to jurong point, went to eat ichiban and got some privileges cause of kim tian friend work there. Follow sis to get another mobile charger, went shopping awhile, head to coffee bean for drink, and here came kim peng, follow by 5th aunt and meet Elmay at chinese garden mrt then we head to nex.

Walk and shop and stop. And finally had dinner at food junction. Went to take bus 105 and home sweet home. There is nothing special. But what matter was the presence of each other. We are not friends, we are not stranger! But we are cousins! We do not talk to each other when we are much younger. But we feel that they are present in our family tree. We do not know much about them. But we do now. Is only the gatherness will create this kind of opportunities to get people together.

Yes! Maybe we are much older and we start to interact more. But no matter how, we will still feel the sense of belonging from the same tree we are from. But is just that we have not met. And now is time, that is a long time bond that we had created today.

Family dinner

Family is not equal to friends. Both can be a pillar to lean on but still family will always be the stronger one. Friends come and go, we can choose the friends to be with. On the other hand, family there is only one. A father, a mother, brothers and sisters. There wouldn't be an incident where you can find two mothers carry you in their womb. Sibling can have many. There are just like your friends who staying with you. But whenever you need help, they can be your supporter. When anything happen to you, they will also be the one who will get direct impact from you. They get to feel about you. They get to understand you.

Having a family dinner together on the same table, it is rare to be seem nowadays. Today was a occasion where we celebrate my dad's birthday. And we have a newly member; Rong Ting a.k.a Angie. We went Owen seafood resturant where we discuss in facebook. Firstly, we had a joking manner of discussion and my second sister initialized it. During execution, no money no talk but we had respect each other decision. Overall, we have fun taking photos and playing with baby Angie.

Having a family dinner, I feel the warm and harmony. The presence of everyone is just a gift to keep everyone togetherness. The joys and laughters are the bonus that we get for being a family.

What determine a happy family? I believe is you. One self. There is always anger, fear, and dissapointment. But it is all related to how we react. How we see, and how we hold our grudges. You wanna be happy, just chill everyone down and try smile to them. You feel dissapointed, just tell them while using soft method. Everything is how we handle. If you manage it well, you and your family will also be mindful and happy too!

So what you waiting for! Go and organise a family meal now! Appreciate them by giving your presence to them!
Wish you and your family have a wonderful session.

Young family

I was walking to pionner mrt and saw two young family. What I mean is young couple with a newly born baby. They were push the baby trolley.

What come to my mind was basically envy them. I just wish that I can have my own family soon. At least I can process to another phase of life. Why so fast? Not fast already. If we were to calculate and really have a fruitful and meaningful life, we have to start when we are still young.

When we older, our kids might be too young to join you for any happening activities. Ended up he or she will have to spend most of their time sitting beside the bed and pray for you. How much meaningful and memoriable experience you both have? On the other hand,if you are much younger, and you son or daughter are big enough and they get you involve in what ever youth experience and adventurous activities and you are still fit and strong to participate. Isn't that good?

But can we? Singapore got too many people are bounded with worries. Education, money, married, parents, housing, kids, etc. So how?