I was shared by a friend regarding his job. He told me that after making the decision to take up the job, he find that he cannot be who he is. But overall, he have no choice but just to carry on with the unnatural self to work.
There was once when I am heading back from my life saving refresher workshop, I saw one of my friend who work in similar field who used to be my instructor was with his daughter. During the time he was my trainer, he just kind of give up and accept the fact that he have to guide the trainees. So the way he conduct was just doing for the sick of doing it. And compare to the moment that he communicate with his daughter was really a loving dad and can see the different in how committed or passionated to the thing we feel is worth investing. Well, maybe not invest but more like belonging to us.
Having a job not doing it like what we are are really tough. There are so many restriction, too many needs and wants that we want to fulfill are things that make us what we are and what we think. But ultimately, it lies in our hand. What make us feel that way? Is the society? Is our love ones? Do be positive, have a open mind which does help to be more giving and commit. People that I see are those who work to fulfill their needs, after stable, they will strive for wants. That life!
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